So, I am stressed to the max right now. It seems as though the saying, "When it rains, it pours" is right. Now in this situation it is not a bad thing, just somewhat stressful. Let me break it down for you.
Within the past few days I have been offered a position at Scheels in DSM and have had an interview with Nationwide. These are all good things, but then it causes me to stress about what I should do. I am a people pleaser (which will be discussed in a later blog) and hate disappointing people. This is where the problem starts. I feel as though I have to please everyone else and their needs before I even start pleasing mine.
I think that part of me would like to stay with Scheels because it is comfortable, but at the same time I know that even with the raise in pay they said they would give me it wouldn't be enough to save like I want to. Then there is Nationwide. It is a new job that would allow me to learn new skills and meet new people. Yet, new jobs make me anxious which lead to anxiety attacks. There is just no winning with me.
I don't want to let anyone down. I really need to start thinking about my needs more. Any suggestions?
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2 comments:
I say try something new. You can always go back to something you're familiar with... Unless the pay is the same... but it's still Scheels if you stay there, know what I mean? Part of the reason you wanted change..
I have to say I feel your pain... for some reason I am always trying to please everyone else before I do what I want. Its easy to say but hard to actually do - you really do have to do what feels right for you and what will make you the most happy. Scheels will still be in business if you decide not to work there anymore and so will Nationwide if you don't take that job. Just do what you think will benefit you in the long run. There is nothing wrong with a little change!
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